Think back to what has caused you division between you and God? Is it the death of a loved one, is it a broken relationship, is it an addiction, is it an argument, is it something someone made you do that you didn't want to? Did someone hurt you?
This is why we have to be so careful when it comes to putting our trust in man. We are called to trust God and love man. There is a difference. Men are not capable of the kind of things that we need from God, and there is no way they can give us what we need. Therefore if you are looking at a church, your spouse, or other people to do the things for you that only God can. You are going to find yourself easily discouraged by people and you will start division.
We do not need to invent a God to do the things that we want and desire. It would be a false hope and would eventually fall apart. We don't want to put our hope in false God's who again, can't do what the real authentic God can.
Some people choose to turn to Satan, thinking he has some authority with the dark forces and powers to give them the gratification of power. Unfortunately, that is not so, and these folks will find themselves in a defeated state.
Next time you get upset with someone because they didn't perform as you expected them to, ask God to fill the need. If the need doesn't get met, ask God to show you why, if you don't get told why, trust that you were meant for more than what you were asking. God knows what you need, long before you even know to ask.
1 Corinthians 1:10-17 New International Version (NIV)
I appeal to you, brothers and sisters, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree with one another in what you say and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be perfectly united in mind and thought. My brothers and sisters, some from Chloe’s household have informed me that there are quarrels among you. What I mean is this: One of you says, “I follow Paul”; another, “I follow Apollos”; another, “I follow Cephas”; still another, “I follow Christ.”
Is Christ divided? Was Paul crucified for you? Were you baptized in the name of Paul? I thank God that I did not baptize any of you except Crispus and Gaius, so no one can say that you were baptized in my name. (Yes, I also baptized the household of Stephanas; beyond that, I don’t remember if I baptized anyone else.) For Christ did not send me to baptize, but to preach the gospel—not with wisdom and eloquence, lest the cross of Christ be emptied of its power.