I suppose that's why some people don't like to read it. I don't always like it...but then again, you know what they say...truth hurts. Except God is not looking to hurt you, he's looking to heal you. If you can't face the truth and you always see the blame about your life by pointing fingers at someone else, you will never be set free.
You know what else is cool. No one else has to even know anything about it. It's personal, between you and God. So there's no need to be embarrassed or ashamed. God's a personal life coach and he never blabs your business to anyone else either.
Two Kinds of Wisdom ~James 3:13-18
Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such “wisdom” does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.
But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.