I am deeply saddened by relationships that don't get fixed. I've chased after them, ran to them, gave up my wants and needs to try to make them work. I've listened to people's reasons why and been discouraged when I've been rejected. I know what it's like to have people not want to spend time with you and I know what it's like to only communicate through Social Media. I'm sure you've done the same.
I've come to the conclusion that relationships cannot be repaired by two people. Only God can repair them. Without God in the center, there is not much hope. Even if one side is trying to do all they can to repair and encourage, without the other side plugging in, it simply becomes a no win situation. Sure, there can be some changes for a while, but after that time, it just goes back to the way it was.
Because no one ever taught us what a healthy relationship looked like. Christ showed us how to love people.
The Bible also talks about how to deal with people that refuse to try to mend relationships. You'd be surprised at what it says. It doesn't always say, chase after them and beg for their friendships. Sometimes it says trust God, let them walk away, seek spiritual counseling, brush the dust from your feet, let Satan sift them.
But once God says RESTORE....you best listen.